The High Cost of Talking

I finish preaching at a church and I am invited to a Sunday School class. Since one of the great passions of my life is to see Jesus-like transformational teaching happen in Sunday Schools and small groups, I say, “Are you kidding? I’d LOVE to.”

I’m escorted to a very nice classroom where about 20 energetic adults are milling around engaged in what seems like good conversation to me. I hear lots of laughter and see lots of smiles. Many of these folks seem to know and love each other. I’m able to meet the volunteer teacher and several other sharp, articulate, and fun-loving people before the class starts. I sense energy in the room. I grab my cup of coffee and donut and find a seat. The subject today: God’s Word on marriage. I think to myself: This is going to be good. I can’t wait to see how this group tackles this.

Ten minutes into the class, the energy, engagement, and enthusiasm that once was, is no more. It feels like someone pulled the plug in a bathtub full of fun, relationships, and learning. The longer the class continues, the stronger the vortex of disengagement becomes. I watch one very sincere and well-studied teacher stand at the front of the room... and continue to talk. He doesn’t seem to notice that the smiles, energy, and, worst of all, the learning—like Elvis—have left the building. Not once in 50 long minutes is anyone asked to respond or participate. I look around the room to study the glazed-over faces. Just minutes ago, these eyes were lit up as they conversed with each other about God and life. Not now.

My heart deflates—for both the teacher and those being taught. I ponder the tragedy unfolding before me: an untapped gold mine of biblical understanding and life experience sitting in the room... wasting away... right under the teacher’s nose. I sit and wonder. (I know, I should have been listening to the teacher.) I wonder how any of them may have enriched the learning with a personal story of God at work in their marriage. I wonder if anyone may have a related passage of Scripture to share. I wonder what could have happened—what God might do—in our lives if we could stop the lecture long enough to break into groups of 4-6 people and study what the Bible has to say about marriage for ourselves first... before the teacher tells us. I suspect that a number of those in the class would have something biblical, fun, and pertinent to offer... something life-changing to share.... if only they had a chance.

But they never got a chance.

The class is over now. I walk out of the room and, at my next thought, I feel a slight chill run down my spine: I wonder who will come back next week... and, more importantly, who won’t?

Here’s a wake-up-and-smell-the-coffee moment for you:

The fate of your Sunday school ministry, small group ministry, children’s ministry, youth ministry, men’s ministry, women’s ministry, etc….it’s NOT about you, about what you’re SAYING. It’s about THEM, the participants, and what they’re LEARNING. Jesus knew that. He constantly asked questions and LISTENED. He talked WITH the people and guided them into truth. The next small group you lead, the next Sunday School class you teach, keep track of the amount of time you TALK and compare that to the amount of time you LISTEN. You’ll be amazed.

A True Story by Bill Allison
CADRE Ministries
www.cadreministries.com

BASE Elements of Discipleship

Discipleship is the process of learning to follow the Savior, Jesus Christ. There are many good methods and some not so good. I think the acrostic B.A.S.E. sums up the essentials of growth. Let’s look at the separate letters to see how it applies to spiritual growth.

The first element is “B”, Belief. A belief is a truth that is presented to us. It can be presented in a book, or in a conversation. The important thing is that by being “truth” it often confronts previously held ideas and by the nature of being truth it pushes us to the next element.

The second element is “A”, Acceptance. Acceptance is a personal acceptance. In other words, the disciple takes the belief, as his/her own. Acceptance leads to the third element.

The third element is “S”, Switch. As we accept a belief as our own, we come to a realization that it forces us to a decision of the will. Every truth that we accept pushes us to switch our will, for God’s will. This step is often the point at which people decide not to live by the truth they say they hold.

The fourth element is “E”, Express. Expressing is acting upon the decision to follow God’s will. This is the final step in seeing change in people’s lives.

I’ve seen the diagram of BASE, drawn as a baseball diamond, used to describe the process of becoming a disciple of Christ. First, there is a belief presented, that Jesus is Lord, then we accept it, we switch our wills for his, and we express it by following. This is a good evangelism diagram. But from what I’ve seen, the process continues as we learn to follow Jesus as His disciples.

Let’s look at one example: There is a belief given in Scripture that God responds to prayer to accomplish His will. We accept that as the way God works. We switch to decide to pray because it is what God desires. And we express it by praying! Following the process, we’ve moved from a non-praying person to a praying person.

A discipleship ministry must help people move from one base to another, with one truth after another. As we do that, we will see people who have been transformed by the renewing of their minds.

Dr. James Renke
Senior Pastor
Village Green Baptist Church
Glen Ellyn, IL